dimanche, décembre 19, 2004
Jus read Rich's blog. Hmm.. what can i say.. I feel that even though we might be ignoring our parents half the time, being so mean to them, feeling that we don't even care for the family. But deep down inside, this isnt how we really feel. I know, everyone loves their parents and family. It's just that we do not know how to express our love for them. Most of the time, we took every single thing for granted.
You are not the only one who feels inferior. People like me, who is always laughing, also have my problems, also have something that i feel inferior about. It's just that we do not want to show it. The reason is mainly because we do not want others to worry for us. People do sin. We cant be all exactly perfect neither can we make people love us. All we have to do is to be ourselves, if you think that it's right. Go ahead and do it. No worries. And before we can do anything, just think. Think about how the others might feel and then decide if you still want to carry it out. Just slowly make the changes. We cant jus change for the better in such short period of time. Everything takes time.
We have to participate actively, do not be afraid of criticisms. If we want to be noticed, just join as many programmes. Make as many frens as possible. People wont give you those weird weird looking expressions. Smile at people when they smile at you. We do not have to smile at every single one who's around us. Greet when someone greets you. Yup it's jus that easy.
Sometimes not worrying abt the future is a good thing. So that we wont have to become a worrier. Less white hairs, Less wrinkles, Less headaches. Not worrying about the future doesnt mean that we couldnt be bothered about what's going to happen. It's just that we take things 1 at a time. People who are worriers often admire those who are a carefree person. Yup. Do not keep thinking about what qualities others have and what qualities that you do not have. You are yourself. If you want to have the qualities that you admire about the other person. Work for it. I'm sure everyone can do that. What makes each and everyone different and special is our qualities. By thinking about what the others have will only make us feel more inferior and then we'll gradually lose our self-esteem. A person with self-confidence, attracts people.
Each and everyone of us are special in our own way. Just try not to think about things which make us feel inferior. Take things easily, and everything will come our way. Do not expect too much from oneself. Make realistic goals. Be the way we are, I'm sure people will like us more. If we keep thinking "I am so lousy" blah blah blah.. one of these days you'll surely become lousy. So, DO NOT ever think this way.
Remember: I am special, so are you! :)
shweet dreams;
2:32 PM
