mercredi, décembre 24, 2003
Let Go
when you open this book here, you are presented with one of the biggest challenges in relationships and in life itself. But the reward you reap will be in proportion to the effort expended. It's simple - let go. What if it wasn't up to you? What if you couldn't control others, yourself, the outcome, today, tomorrow, forever?
This isn't calling for you to be passive or to stop caring. It's telling you to take a back seat. It's not telling you to leave the relationship, or to stop trying to establish a new one, but it is telling you to let it be what it really is. Get your nose (and anything else you've got in there) out of everyone else's business. Let them look after their own lives and you look after yours. Stop trying to make the world fit with your desires. Let it be what it is and then deal with it as it is.
Let fate and destiny bring you what they will. Sit down, breathe, take some time out or time off and let life just happen for once. If you are trying to convince, educate, pressurise or manipulate your partner, or someone new, into giving you what you want, now is the time to stop. If you are pushing yourself in the same way - stop. Who could you be if you just let go? Who knows what experiences and opportunities you're missing out on, while being so busy and holding on so tightly, trying to manipulate everything and everyone so intensely.
Watch what happens when you begin to let go. It will all work out exactly as it's meant to and better than it will with you trying to control it. Have faith that life will support you and bring you what you need. Let the fear that you won't get what you want surface, and deal with that instead of avoiding it. You'll never be able to swim to a new shore if you won't let go of the driftwood you're holding on to so tightly.
Swim, let go, let the tide direct you, let the water of life support your weight. It's safe to let go. Do it now.
---- " Love Wisdom" by Carolyn Temsi & Caro Handley
there's many "if only" i wanna say... jus too many.. for many many reasons... i've found out some stuffs in some way or another... thru blogs and stuffs... and i've come to realise some stuffs... i know my position and such.. no worries.. i m not going to brood over such trivial matters... for what? no use what.. now i m already the same old jun hui..
if only i.....
if only i.....
jus too many to say and also i dun think i wanna say it here either..
shweet dreams;
10:47 AM
