samedi, décembre 27, 2003
heylos.. so excited.. firstly i'm gonna have a bbq tml!! HURRAY!! then yiqian will come early and swim wif me.. gotta choose a good spot and have the sun shining at me!! well.. met yiqian today too.. went to buy those bbq stuffs.. yupx.. then we were like buying and toking and everything and saw this man... imitating the way yiqian tie her hair... chee ko pek.. then i noticed wherever we go the guys will look.. hmm for today.. wonder why.. we wore our clothes the wrong way?? and ya.. when we were coming home... saw dunno is fairfield guys or acjc guys.. saw them climbing into acjc sch compound instead of walking in.. then the last guys he climbed in and face yiqian and i and wave at us and say goodbye!! SIAO!! i dun even know him man... and then hor.. when i went to buy char siew rice for my sis... this stupid mix rice stall uncle.. ask me "xiao mei yao mai fan ma?" SIAO!! he no eyes ar? cant see i bought char siew rice liao meh? then some dunno what guys or uncles or whatever behind him were whistling.. stupid.. hope ur mouth faster drop.. siao...
YAY!! going to learn how to play mahjong tml.. and yiqian said i m more tanned now YAY!! cos i went to swim on x'mas eve.. at 12 noon.. HAHAHA!! and when the sun is out.. i stopped swimming and tan myself.. LOLX.. ok so siao i know.. going to learn how to play mahjong tml.. YAY!! ok secondly on why i m so excited is bcos a new year is coming!! YAY!! cant wait for CNY!! I LOVE CNY the MOST!! YAY!! gimme money!! mayb i should go to some frens hse and get angbao.. ahha... ok i m siao.. new year's coming!! so excited!!
Communication
When you open this book here, your relationship or potential replationship requires clear, honest direct communication. It sounds so simple yet it is often the biggest challenge that we face.
If the 2 of you are literally not speaking, the message is clear: you need to open an honest dialogue and talk to each other. Don't attack or criticise. Rather, focus on what you haven't been saying which you should have said all along. Talk about your own feelings and experience and don't tell the other person who to be or what to do.
This may also offer a premonition of an impending letter or phone call. It reassures you that the connection is maintained over time and distance and that you will hear from someone soon.
Remember that you can talk to someone using universal energy no matter how far apart you are. It is only a matter of time before telepathic communication becomes accepted as a reality. The really great thing is that you don't have to believe in it to use it. Try sending a message to a loved one with your mind and you'll be amazed at the response. The best time is when they are sleeping as they'll be more receptive. This is a good way to express our vulnerabilities abd our wishes, hopes and dreams.
If you feel that you are already communicating well, this warns you that you are not talking about the real issues or that your style of communication is not working. Often we make the assumption that another shares out world of reference. Surely, we believe, if we know what we mean then they must know too. But it may not be the case. Try going back to basics. Ask your partner to tell you what they think you've said and keep repeating it until their understanding is consistent with yours. Then you know you're communicating.
Somtimes we waster huge amounts of time and energy tangled up in communication which is actually designed to avoid the real issue. Now is the time to stop avoiding and to get to the point.
Good communication is at the heart of good relationships. Reap the benefits.
----Love Wisdom
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