mardi, décembre 16, 2003
fiona xie said this... " you loved, you learnt, you move on".... yes indeed.. but then it is much easier to say it than to really let go and move on... how many ppl can actually do it? let go and move on.. i doubt there are many who can do this... i really admire or pei4 fu2 those who really managed to do that.. cos it certainly aint an easy thing to do..
frens... there'll be many frens we make in a lifetime.. but how many of them can leave a footprint in ur heart.. how many can stay by u and be with you whenever u need them.. how many will jus do "their job" and then look for a reason and leave? a mail which i have received from pin pin.. it says...
Are you a Reason, Season or a Lifetime?
Pay attention to what you read. After you read
this, you will know the reason it was sent to
you!
People come into your life for a reason, a
season or a lifetime. When you figure out which
one it is, you will know what to do for each
person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and
support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or
spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and
they are! They are there for the reason you need
them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing
on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this
person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a
stand. What we must realize is that our need has
been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is
done. The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON.
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or
learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or
make you laugh. They may teach you something you
have never done. They usually give you an
unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is
real! But, only for a season
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime
lessons: things you must build upon in order to
have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is
to accept the lesson, love the person, and put
what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life. It is said
that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
so who in our life is a reason, who in our life is a season and who in our life is a lifetime? it is something worth thinking abt.. i m a reason, a season, a lifetime in whose life? this is something one will never ever find out until the day u die.. like what yiqian's parents say... "you will never know who is your The One until the day you die" cos when u said The One.. there is one and only one.. u cant say that this person is ur The One after u marry.. cos u can divorce anytime! it's is only when u die then u will only know the answer.. u will never know ur importance in someone else's heart.. until the day u die... frens who can really stay by u, be there whenever u need them, is rare to come by.. frankly speaking.. i have met some frens who come into my life for a reason and those who come into my life for a season.. but have yet to find one who will come in for a lifetime.. be it a reason, a season or a lifetime... jus appreciate whatever you have now... thank God for them and that at least they made u happy once.. they taught u stuffs and everything, lent u a helping hand... it's all the Lord's plan.. thank Him for it.. whatever things that happen, happens for a reason... and after everything.. it does certainly make u a stronger person.
shweet dreams;
11:36 AM
